Where I come from…

I grew up in Nebraska, right in the middle of three kids. My parents, Alicia and Jim Chrastil, worked hard, taught us to do the same, and made sure we knew the importance of being reliable, honest, and involved. My mom has always been a leader in the community, and my dad showed what it means to keep your word and follow through.

 

My older sister Elizabeth lives in North Carolina with her husband Todd and their daughters—Teagan, Aubrey, and Peiper. My younger sister Whitney and her husband Alex Titov are nearby and always up for a good debate or a helping hand. We may not all live in the same place anymore, but we stay connected. Family has always been part of the equation, and it still is.

My schooling journey…

My family lived in Lincoln until I was about four, then moved to a one-room schoolhouse in Princeton, Nebraska—an old building my parents were renovating into a home. I started my education at Norris Elementary, a country school, and went there through third grade. My parents sold the schoolhouse, and we moved to Panama, Nebraska, for a while. Around fifth grade, we moved back to Lincoln.

 

I was homeschooled through sixth grade, then went to Cathedral of the Risen Christ for seventh and eighth; the only Protestant in my grade. I spent ninth grade at Pound Middle School—the place where my parents first met—before heading to Lincoln Southeast High School. I played football there, just like my dad did under Coach Frank Solich. Now, my son plays for Southeast too, making my kids third-generation Knights. I currently serve as Vice President of the school’s PTSO, doing my part to support the community that raised me.

Service in the Army…

I enlisted in the Army National Guard three months after 9/11. I was 17 years old and ready to serve. Over the next nine years, I gained experience that shaped nearly every part of who I am. During my deployment to Iraq from 2004 to 2005, I served as a recovery vehicle operator—but that was only part of the job. Most of my time was spent designing, fabricating, and welding improvised up-armor for Humvees and other vehicles. Back then, proper armor was in short supply, so we had to get creative to keep our people safe.

 

It wasn’t easy work, and it wasn’t without risk—but it gave me a sense of purpose, and a respect for the kind of teamwork and problem-solving you can only learn under pressure. I also developed Crohn’s disease while deployed, which I still manage to this day. But like with most things in the military, you find a way forward and keep showing up.

Family…

I’m a dad first, and that’s a title I take seriously. My kids—Edward, Maria, and Esme—are the heart of everything I do. They each have their own strengths, their own ways of seeing the world, and they challenge me to be better every day. I also have a stepdaughter, Alicia Gubalke, who’s been a part of my life for many years. Watching all of them grow into strong, thoughtful individuals has been one of the most meaningful parts of my journey.

 

I was married for several years, and though that chapter ended in divorce, it brought me my children—and for that, I’ll always be grateful. Raising kids through life’s ups and downs hasn’t always been easy, but it’s been real, and it’s been worth it. Everything I’ve built, every project I pursue, is in some way connected to giving them a life they can be proud of.

Music…

Music’s been a constant thread throughout my life. In high school, I played in a band called Krymson, where I first got a taste of what it meant to perform, write original songs, and connect with an audience. After returning from Iraq, I formed a band called Fireside Innocence (FSI). While all of my past bandmates have felt like family, my sister was the only actual relative involved—Joining once the band was already rolling.

 

We toured, recorded, and left it all on the stage. These days, I play for 55+ communities and in hospice settings, where music becomes less about entertainment and more about connection and comfort. I’m also currently back in the studio recording new material and gearing up for live performances again. Keep an eye on the Music section of this site for updates and show announcements—there’s more to come.

Journalism…

I didn’t take the traditional route into journalism—I didn’t have a degree, just a strong work ethic and a belief that stories matter. I landed my first reporting job by convincing an editor to give me a shot, and I ran with it. Investigative reporting became my focus—uncovering what others missed, asking tough questions, and putting in the kind of work that earned multiple awards from the Nebraska Press Association.

 

Eventually, I shifted from chasing leads in small towns to writing for a much different audience. I moved into corporate journalism, traveling the country and producing internal newsletters for major railroad companies. The work was different, but the mission stayed the same: tell stories that inform, connect, and carry weight. Whether I was covering leadership changes, safety innovations, or employee spotlights, I treated every assignment with the same level of care and curiosity. Journalism taught me how to listen, how to write with clarity, and how to find meaning in the details—skills I’ve carried with me into every new chapter.

Steamfitting…

After my time in journalism, I made a major shift and entered the trades—specifically, steamfitting. I joined Local 464 out of Omaha and completed a five-year apprenticeship that covered everything from high-pressure piping systems to welding, HVAC, and process piping. Once I became a journeyman, I spent three more years working on complex commercial and industrial projects where precision, safety, and accountability were non-negotiable.

 

Steamfitting gave me a deep respect for skilled labor and the people who keep critical infrastructure running. It also shaped the way I approach challenges—head-on, with focus and follow-through. After eight solid years in the field, I transitioned into real estate, bringing with me the same commitment to quality and hard work that I learned on job sites across the region.

Real Estate…

After years in the field as a steamfitter, I made the decision to transition into real estate—not because I didn’t love the trades, but because life shifted. As a single father of three, I needed more time with my kids, and the demanding schedule of construction made that nearly impossible. At the same time, managing my Crohn’s disease in that environment became increasingly difficult. I wanted a career that still let me serve people and solve problems—but with more flexibility and balance.

 

That’s when I found real estate, and I’ve never looked back. I specialize in veteran and senior transitions, helping them and their families navigate some of life’s biggest changes with clarity and compassion. I’m part of the Nebraska Real Estate Specialty Group of Nebraska Realty, where we provide full-service support for downsizing, relocating, aging in place, and more. Whether I’m helping a veteran secure the right loan, guiding a family through probate, or hosting our Savvy Senior Empowerment Seminars, my goal is simple: help people feel supported, informed, and confident every step of the way.

Writing…

Writing has always helped me process life—whether through journalism, music, or telling stories that don’t quite fit anywhere else. Over time, those stories started taking shape in a more intentional way. My first book, Harmonize the Hustle: Changing the Tune of Business, is set to release soon. It’s part business, part personal philosophy—built around the idea that success doesn’t have to mean burnout, and that there’s a better rhythm to be found.

 

I’m currently looking for a few early readers to give feedback before launch. If you’re interested in being part of that circle, reach out—I’d love to hear from you.

 

I’m also working on two other projects: one is a raw, honest book, based on a true story, about marriage, divorce, and everything in between. It’s not ready yet, but it’s coming. The other is a sweeping fiction series that pulls from myth, history, and something deeper. I’m keeping the details quiet for now, but if you’re the type who enjoys layered, meaningful stories, stay tuned.